Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Friday, 30 November 2012
Office presents; tricky but not impossible.
Now that Black Friday and Cyber Monday are behind us, holiday shopping season is officially underway. And for office workers, that includes shopping for colleagues and bosses. But buying gifts for them can be as much of an etiquette minefield as the annual holiday party. Give the wrong gift, and you can derail your career before New Year's. Give the right one, and you'll start 2013 off right.
Here are 7 brief tips which we hope can help you:
Don't blow your budget
It's all too easy to want to impress your boss and colleagues with expensive presents, but this may send the message that you're trying to buy their loyalty. If there is no agreed upon budget, spend less rather than more. An office holiday gift is meant to be a token of appreciation rather than a large holiday gift from Santa, not only will your gift be seen as more tasteful, your credit card will thank you.
Do make thoughtful choices
While your gift to your colleague won't be as personal as to your spouse or parent, show that you know something about the person. If you don't know them particularly well then choose something he or she can use at work, such as a quality pen, a stylish organizer, or an iPad or eReader cover. Gift or music vouchers or sports tickets are safe options. By and large it’s probably best to avoid bottles of booze or spa treatments (the first is risky if the person doesn't drink, the latter could send a mixed message)!!
Give gifts away from the office
If you're only giving gifts to a few select people (and not the entire staff) then you should consider doing it at lunch. However, if you're playing Santa to all, make sure the gifts are equal in value, particularly if staff members are at equal levels on the corporate ladder. You shouldn't give more to one than the other because inevitably they will compare.
Always give your PA something
Again, a small token is still fine - but always give something. It's a nice holiday gesture to show your gratitude to someone who supports you and shows loyalty throughout the year. Even if this person is new, it's still appropriate and can work wonders for the forthcoming year.
Think about joining forces
If you're not sure whether it's appropriate to get your boss a gift, consider organising a group one. By doing so it looks less self-serving and with joint funds you'll be able to give him or her a nicer gift without breaking your budget.
Remember to say ‘Thank you’
It always seems to happen that someone is caught off guard by a gift from someone they didn't buy for. Don't panic - simply give back your gratitude. It is not mandatory to reciprocate, but it is essential to accept the gift with a genuine smile on your face and say something such as, “Thank you so much for thinking of me”.
Just say no to gag gifts
Ok, we all like a joke and a laugh to lighten the working atmosphere, but anything that can be seen as possibly offensive has no place in an office environment. Save the gag gifts for very close family and friends. Unless your office is hosting a white elephant exchange where the premise is to give a silly gift, opt for tasteful over tacky.
Those few thoughts should give you plenty of time to prepare and come up with the perfect gift for your colleague(s).
As ever, the team can be contacted at www.chestertongray.com
Friday, 10 February 2012
The Eeyore Candidate
During a recent assignment we were interviewing candidates for a position that had been open for months and it felt like we were never going to find the right candidate who. That was until we found the perfect CV.
Before redundancy the candidate had a proven track record and had worked for some major companies in the right sector. Without any hesitation, we set up an interview and I was certain that as long as they showed up and were breathing, they’d get the job.
A week later it was time for the interview and I went to the reception where I saw two candidates waiting. One was sharply dressed and exuded confidence. The other looked like they had slept in their suit. Considering the importance of the role, the smart candidate had to be mine. I walked up and introduced myself, but a small, quiet voice behind me in the scruffy suit corrected me and introduced themselves as my candidate
What followed was the longest and most boring interview of my life. We gave them every possible opportunity to impress us, but every question was answered in a ho-hum tone and it became apparent that they weren’t all they seemed to be. Needless to say we didn’t include them on the shortlist but they definitely left an impression on me. We described them as Eeyore, the depressed donkey from “Winnie the Pooh.”
I understand that being unemployed and looking for work can turn even the best of us into an Eeyore, but keep in mind that Eeyores don’t get jobs.
If you think you might be an Eeyore candidate, try these 10 tips…
1) Surround yourself with positive peopleIdeally everyone you come across will be supportive of your job search, but some people’s idea of support is actually detrimental to your success. You will come across people that make up excuses for you, like “The job market just sucks right now. It’s not your fault.” Try to distance yourself from these people. While they are trying to help, their “solutions” will only keep you down. Instead, if you have friends, family, and colleagues who say things like “I know you can do it,” or “Keep it up!” or do things like e-mail you jobs to apply to, keep these people close. Their support is positive, and being around them will give you a more positive outlook.
2) Don’t take it personallyThe most amazing job seekers will encounter rejection from time to time. Most of the time, the reason for rejection has nothing to do with you anyway. The reason you don’t get the job or don’t even get an interview might be because of budgeting, internal candidates, or a complete revamp of the company or department you’re applying to. Don’t focus on things you can’t control. Focus on yourself and your abilities.
3) Tell yourself you’re hirable
If you’ve worked at least one day in your life, then you must have some hirable skills. You are good enough to get a job, but no one will hire you if you don’t think you deserve it. And besides, beating yourself up every day gets downright exhausting.
4) Practice interviewing
There’s nothing as depressing as completely blowing an interview. There’s one easy way to combat this: practice the interview. Most recruitment people will ask the same questions over and over again. You can find articles and books online of standard interview questions. One word of caution though: a successful interview isn’t just about being able to answer the questions. It’s about how you answer the questions. Practice how you will answer the questions you anticipate being asked. Set up a mock interview with a friend, a recruiter, or even your other half. Acting out the scenario in a friendly setting will help you prepare for the real deal.
5) Get out of the house
When you’re looking for a job, your job search should be one of your top priorities, but it should not be your only priority. You can only sit in front of your computer and send out CV’s for so long before you get cabin fever. Getting out of the house is okay. Reward yourself for your hard work by going out for a walk or a treat of some sort. Just getting outside, being around other people, and being in sunlight will have a dramatic effect on your outlook.
6) Network
Find some professional networking groups in your area or in your industry. Many of them may even have events that cater to people who are “in transition.” The people you meet at these events may be able to give you advice on how to be an effective job-seeker and may even point you in the direction of companies that are hiring.
7) Set small, achievable goals
It’s great to start with the end in mind, but don’t let the end be your one and only goal. If you wake up every day of your job search thinking, “Today is the day I get the job,” the fact of the matter is that you will fail from achieving your goal every day except for the very last day of your job search. That feeling of failure isn’t exactly motivating. Focus on the smaller steps you need to help get you there. Tell yourself, “I will apply to 15 jobs today,” or “I’ll RSVP for two networking events today.” These are small, achievable, attainable goals, and you will feel good about yourself when you cross them off your daily to-do list.
8) Go shopping and give yourself a job seeker makeover
As I commented at the start; Clothes definitely make the man (or woman), so take some time to go shopping for a new interview outfit if necessary. Apparently the act of shopping makes you temporarily happier!! Investing in a new outfit that makes you look like a success will also make you act like a success. When you like the way you look, you will exude the confidence, happiness, and positivity that Eeyore candidates lack.
9) If it’s really serious, then get serious help
Being unemployed, especially for a long period of time, can easily lead to a serious depression problem. If you notice any depression warning signs over an extended period of time, such as having difficulty getting out of bed every morning or heightened alcohol consumption, go to your doctor right away and get help. Your job search is important, but your mental health should always be your top priority. Also, if you are clinically depressed and not getting proper treatment, your depression will be a major hindrance to your job search. Take care of yourself and everything else will fall into place.
So let’s look forward to a positive year and make sure that it’s the one where we all achieve our objectives.
www.chestertongray.com
Before redundancy the candidate had a proven track record and had worked for some major companies in the right sector. Without any hesitation, we set up an interview and I was certain that as long as they showed up and were breathing, they’d get the job.
A week later it was time for the interview and I went to the reception where I saw two candidates waiting. One was sharply dressed and exuded confidence. The other looked like they had slept in their suit. Considering the importance of the role, the smart candidate had to be mine. I walked up and introduced myself, but a small, quiet voice behind me in the scruffy suit corrected me and introduced themselves as my candidate
What followed was the longest and most boring interview of my life. We gave them every possible opportunity to impress us, but every question was answered in a ho-hum tone and it became apparent that they weren’t all they seemed to be. Needless to say we didn’t include them on the shortlist but they definitely left an impression on me. We described them as Eeyore, the depressed donkey from “Winnie the Pooh.”
I understand that being unemployed and looking for work can turn even the best of us into an Eeyore, but keep in mind that Eeyores don’t get jobs.
If you think you might be an Eeyore candidate, try these 10 tips…
1) Surround yourself with positive peopleIdeally everyone you come across will be supportive of your job search, but some people’s idea of support is actually detrimental to your success. You will come across people that make up excuses for you, like “The job market just sucks right now. It’s not your fault.” Try to distance yourself from these people. While they are trying to help, their “solutions” will only keep you down. Instead, if you have friends, family, and colleagues who say things like “I know you can do it,” or “Keep it up!” or do things like e-mail you jobs to apply to, keep these people close. Their support is positive, and being around them will give you a more positive outlook.
2) Don’t take it personallyThe most amazing job seekers will encounter rejection from time to time. Most of the time, the reason for rejection has nothing to do with you anyway. The reason you don’t get the job or don’t even get an interview might be because of budgeting, internal candidates, or a complete revamp of the company or department you’re applying to. Don’t focus on things you can’t control. Focus on yourself and your abilities.
3) Tell yourself you’re hirable
If you’ve worked at least one day in your life, then you must have some hirable skills. You are good enough to get a job, but no one will hire you if you don’t think you deserve it. And besides, beating yourself up every day gets downright exhausting.
4) Practice interviewing
There’s nothing as depressing as completely blowing an interview. There’s one easy way to combat this: practice the interview. Most recruitment people will ask the same questions over and over again. You can find articles and books online of standard interview questions. One word of caution though: a successful interview isn’t just about being able to answer the questions. It’s about how you answer the questions. Practice how you will answer the questions you anticipate being asked. Set up a mock interview with a friend, a recruiter, or even your other half. Acting out the scenario in a friendly setting will help you prepare for the real deal.
5) Get out of the house
When you’re looking for a job, your job search should be one of your top priorities, but it should not be your only priority. You can only sit in front of your computer and send out CV’s for so long before you get cabin fever. Getting out of the house is okay. Reward yourself for your hard work by going out for a walk or a treat of some sort. Just getting outside, being around other people, and being in sunlight will have a dramatic effect on your outlook.
6) Network
Find some professional networking groups in your area or in your industry. Many of them may even have events that cater to people who are “in transition.” The people you meet at these events may be able to give you advice on how to be an effective job-seeker and may even point you in the direction of companies that are hiring.
7) Set small, achievable goals
It’s great to start with the end in mind, but don’t let the end be your one and only goal. If you wake up every day of your job search thinking, “Today is the day I get the job,” the fact of the matter is that you will fail from achieving your goal every day except for the very last day of your job search. That feeling of failure isn’t exactly motivating. Focus on the smaller steps you need to help get you there. Tell yourself, “I will apply to 15 jobs today,” or “I’ll RSVP for two networking events today.” These are small, achievable, attainable goals, and you will feel good about yourself when you cross them off your daily to-do list.
8) Go shopping and give yourself a job seeker makeover
As I commented at the start; Clothes definitely make the man (or woman), so take some time to go shopping for a new interview outfit if necessary. Apparently the act of shopping makes you temporarily happier!! Investing in a new outfit that makes you look like a success will also make you act like a success. When you like the way you look, you will exude the confidence, happiness, and positivity that Eeyore candidates lack.
9) If it’s really serious, then get serious help
Being unemployed, especially for a long period of time, can easily lead to a serious depression problem. If you notice any depression warning signs over an extended period of time, such as having difficulty getting out of bed every morning or heightened alcohol consumption, go to your doctor right away and get help. Your job search is important, but your mental health should always be your top priority. Also, if you are clinically depressed and not getting proper treatment, your depression will be a major hindrance to your job search. Take care of yourself and everything else will fall into place.
So let’s look forward to a positive year and make sure that it’s the one where we all achieve our objectives.
www.chestertongray.com
Wednesday, 9 November 2011
How to leave the office at 5pm
Over the twenty odd years that I’ve been in (allegedly gainful) employment the culture of hours worked has changed markedly. The 80’s with its booming yuppie years accelerated the acceptance, or should that be expectation, that you were in before the first light of dawn and if at all possible were the last person to leave at night. In many cases changing the mindset of management has been part and parcel of changing a business’s culture and through some very high profile law suits and heart attacks the business world finally realised that the work life balance of its employees was an integral part of its success or failure.
Talking to the number of candidates that we do it is plain that every morning they set a goal to leave the office in time to spend the evening hanging out with their family and friends. And every evening around 5 or 6pm, they look at the pile of work that’s still outstanding and realise it's not happening. Again!
But before you settle for another late night of takeaway’s and furious family members, think about this: many people actually do manage to have both fulfilling careers and fulfilling home lives. What do they know? From all of our interviews I've realised that these successful people adopt a few key tactics for shutting down their pc at the end of the day and leaving the office:
1. Realise you can leave before everything's done. In our rapid-fire age, email, requests for assistance, calls and meetings can fill all available space. If you aim to go home with a zero inbox, you will almost certainly never go home. Work will always be there and will take whatever time you give it. So give it less time. We all have a point of diminishing returns.
2. Split your hours. Leaving the office at 5pm doesn't mean you need to be done for the night. Try going home, spending time with your family or pursuing other personal projects, and then if you must work from home, fire up your laptop later in the evening for another hour or two. You'll probably be refreshed enough to solve problems that would have taken you until 8:30 if you'd stayed put.
3. Do a 4pm triage. If the to-do list for the day that you created first thing has been too ambitious, you'll probably realise, by mid-afternoon, that it can't all happen by 5pm. So at 4pm, go through and rank the most important tasks. If you knew that the electricity was going to go off in your office at 5pm, rendering more work impossible, what would you do before then? Do those things. Then stop. Pick up the to-do list again when you do your evening session or better still, the next morning. Who knows, maybe some of the problems will have solved themselves in the night!
If you have some better thoughts and ideas on how to ensure that you’re not stuck in the office until midnight, the team at Chesterton Gray is always keen to hear from you.
Talking to the number of candidates that we do it is plain that every morning they set a goal to leave the office in time to spend the evening hanging out with their family and friends. And every evening around 5 or 6pm, they look at the pile of work that’s still outstanding and realise it's not happening. Again!
But before you settle for another late night of takeaway’s and furious family members, think about this: many people actually do manage to have both fulfilling careers and fulfilling home lives. What do they know? From all of our interviews I've realised that these successful people adopt a few key tactics for shutting down their pc at the end of the day and leaving the office:
1. Realise you can leave before everything's done. In our rapid-fire age, email, requests for assistance, calls and meetings can fill all available space. If you aim to go home with a zero inbox, you will almost certainly never go home. Work will always be there and will take whatever time you give it. So give it less time. We all have a point of diminishing returns.
2. Split your hours. Leaving the office at 5pm doesn't mean you need to be done for the night. Try going home, spending time with your family or pursuing other personal projects, and then if you must work from home, fire up your laptop later in the evening for another hour or two. You'll probably be refreshed enough to solve problems that would have taken you until 8:30 if you'd stayed put.
3. Do a 4pm triage. If the to-do list for the day that you created first thing has been too ambitious, you'll probably realise, by mid-afternoon, that it can't all happen by 5pm. So at 4pm, go through and rank the most important tasks. If you knew that the electricity was going to go off in your office at 5pm, rendering more work impossible, what would you do before then? Do those things. Then stop. Pick up the to-do list again when you do your evening session or better still, the next morning. Who knows, maybe some of the problems will have solved themselves in the night!
If you have some better thoughts and ideas on how to ensure that you’re not stuck in the office until midnight, the team at Chesterton Gray is always keen to hear from you.
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